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Zachary, 10 years later

A 9/11 reflection

We were getting ready for church. I was shaving.

“Zachary,” I said, “They are probably going to be talking about 9/11 today at church.”

“So is this a national holiday?”

“No, I wouldn’t say ‘holiday.’ It is a day of reflection.”

Lucas asked, “What does ‘reflection’ mean?”

I answered, “Reflection means ‘thinking about.’ People will be thinking about what they were doing 10 years ago today. I didn’t come home to your mother 10 years ago. I was in New Jersey and I couldn’t get back into Manhattan.”

“Why?” Zach asked.

“Because they shut all the bridges and tunnels.”

“Why?”

“Because they were afraid something else bad was going to happen.”

I continued, “I remember when I finally got home the next day. Momma was pregnant with you and I remember thinking, ‘What kind of world are we bringing Zachary into?’”

“One that I could make better,” he said without a pause.

Wow.

xoxo

Comments

  1. joe ertman says:

    joe , thanks for your sharing your conversation . i didn’t realize you were not in the office that day … i was at the gnw office with the crew … the images don’t change all that much, simply the perspective has become one of ongoing reflection … we all have responsibilities “to make it better.” i trust all is well .. in peace, joe

  2. Joe Hage says:

    Thanks for stopping by, Joe. What could you see from the gNw offices? What was the scene like at the Grace Building?

  3. Wow.

  4. Joe Hage says:

    Zachary is a sensitive and most extraordinary boy.

  5. I’m sure he will, too.

  6. Joe Hage says:

    xo

  7. Ana Mantini says:

    amazing.. beautiful…
    Like you and your wife, I had just found out i was pregnant with my Luke when this all happened. To think we were bringing a child into a world like this… but Zachary gives me hope!

  8. Joe Hage says:

    What a lovely thought to share, Ana. Thank you!

  9. Tshombe says:

    I am convinced that God speaks to us through children.

  10. Tshombe says:

    Now, are we paying any attention? That’s the question.

  11. Joe Hage says:

    Yes, we are paying attention!

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